Come as You Are

I’ve just arrived at my sister’s house today after traveling halfway across the country for Thanksgiving. I’m so happy to be here! My family, her family, our parents, brothers and sisters-in-law are coming together to celebrate the holiday. As our families come together this week, it has made me think about how valuable and important it is to accept people for who they are. No family is perfect, and no person is perfect, but each one is who they’re meant to be.

Of course, I’ve grown in this area, and self-care is still important. Sometimes we have to take time for ourselves and set our boundaries. But today, right now, I’m really happy to have the kooky cast of characters that is my family. I love them for who they are in this moment and am thankful for each of them. My life is richer for having each of them in it, and I know our relationships bloom when I love them fully in each moment.

I thought to write this blog after hearing someone begin listing faults and difficulties with each of their family members. Sometimes this can help us get by and help us set boundaries. But as I’ve gotten older and learned to love myself more, it’s gotten easier for me to let go and let people be. I’m going to put this to the test over the next couple of days. I’ll keep you posted on how I do. ☺️

Happy Thanksgiving, and may your day be peaceful, beautiful, bountiful, and full of love.